Almost everything we do in life is a choice. To get out of bed in the morning is a choice. To go to work and do your job and pay your rent and take chances and risks, are all choices. To eat unhealthy foods knowing you will gain weight and increase fat and cholesterol and your risk for heart disease are all choices. To get married, or stay in an unhappy marriage or have children, again all these things are our choices.
Every choice has a consequence. Sometimes the consequences are good, sometimes they’re not. Either way, there is always a choice and a consequence that goes along with it. In my own personal opinion it is quite empowering to realize and exercise your ability to choose.
Every choice moves us closer to or farther away from something. Where are your choices leading your life?
Sometimes you will have to choose between two crummy options. Even though both of the options are terrible, there is still a choice. Not choosing is choosing. If you want better things, you have to make better choices. If you want more money you have to make choices that will provide you with more money. If you want a better relationship, you have to make choices that encourage a better relationship.
Yeah I've made a wrong wrong super duper wrong decision once. And that reli changed my life.
How i hoped I did stop and think of the pros and cons that moment. Now there's NO TURNING BACK! =(
So jz a lil advice 2 everyone, if you can create a new habit of stopping whatever you are doing and just a simple ques 2 urself---what are the consequences if I make this choice? Think abt it in and out. You will make better decisions and create a better life for yourself.
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
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